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Entdecke den Wert von freiwilligem Wachstum 📈
Prejudices on football pitches:
"free spirit vs. team spirit"
Need to choose a side? No!
If you want to achieve your happiness, you first have to break out in order to retrain your individuality with the training skills.
You have to build up through your own steps, condition and technique.
You will learn the true meaning of successful teams.
Only when you have trained diligently will you be able to lead the ball on your own, train your own systems into teams or join new ones.
But I also know that there is tremendous pressure from society to really complicate our own mirror neurons in the brain, which ensure that we imitate our surroundings. The imprints of your previous life are also deep.
But with training, future limits, expanded awareness and movement, you can do it.
"WENN ICH UNTERSTÜTZUNG BRAUCHE, HABE ICH VERSAGT."
Stopp. Versagt haben die Menschen, die ein unerfülltes & unglückliches Leben führen, sich selbst etwas vormachen und/oder nicht realisieren, dass es zwingend notwendig ist, regelmäßig an ihrer Persönlichkeit zu trainieren. Das sind die Menschen, die es irgendwann bereuen nichts getan zu haben und/oder niemals "das Glück" so erreichen werden - wie du.
Du wirst mit dieser Unterstützung die nötige Antriebskraft erhalten. Du wirst diese "durchschnittliche" und rein "funktionale" Lebensform durch neue Anregungen um Meilen hinter dir lassen und kannst gleichgesinnte Menschen sogar später inspirieren. Unterschätze dein Engagement nicht: Du bist noch ein Mensch, der es geschafft hat Probleme wahrzunehmen, präventiv zu denken und sich zu reflektieren. Damit hast du einen riesigen Vorteil! Mit dem Mut einen Veränderungsprozess freiwillig zu starten, wirst du vollen Erfolg in deine eigenen 4 Wände erreichen können.
"Counselors / therapists / coaches are too hard, lame or crazy."
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lame? I purposely created the role of "Trainer" for you (See Enough is Enough). And there, where I like to refute clichés, I would like to fulfill one thing on purpose: A coach - is not "lame" at all. He can also be motivating, easy-going, and humorous. If you mean spirit, inner peace or relaxation, I agree with you that calm and serenity is easier to access if at least your acute problem has been clarified and space has been made in your stressful everyday life. Perhaps you would also like to finally relax a little, because people who don't let themselves be disturbed can disturb you themselves. In terms of spirit, however, I would actually wish that we would all get away from the cliché that it would always be about incense sticks or glass balls. Science and Spirit are incredibly huge disciplines that should be respected and recognized equally. These 2 divisions should also be happy to use each other for acceptance. We, on the other hand, could temporarily try to keep a healthy balance and refrain from a one-sided connection or an extreme, as long as the following questions have not been answered: Are we entitled to exclude something that cannot even be proven to be excluded or is it more likely to be based on fear of it strangers? And: Do we really have to assign all topics to be worked on to a higher power, or aren't there some logical conclusions that also have to be accepted? Questions over questions and still no agreement? Let's at least remove the derogatory context "lame". Thanks.
"BERATER/ THERAPEUTEN/ HEILER/ COACHS
SIND KÜHL"
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"He was totally insensitive." The background to your negative experience will be that you were certainly not aware that in this genre your supporter sometimes has to set much clearer boundaries. Despite a general social streak, one slips "into a role" here. Ultimately, when providing advice, coaching or therapy, you have to keep a clear head in order to view what is happening rationally. Even if your concern is understood or even empathized with, staying too long in the problem would not help you any further. And you're with him to take something valuable with you, right? Maybe you still manage to open yourself up to this genre again. Just as the roles of counselors, coaches and therapists are different, so are the performers, the people who take on these roles. A lid fits on each pot. Become aware, especially during this training, that you would also have to accept a casual "Now it's over whining" from me. So I would not suddenly be indifferent to your concern, it is meant disrespectfully towards you or I have also become insensitive. Sentences like this could be used because I have already seen that behind what you said there is a habitual wrong psychological programming that you have to change before you can even reach your goal. My statement alone - the impulse should rather arouse irritation and indignation in you in order to enable further thinking at all. Typical head thing. Behind this are, for example, approaches from "Neuro-Linguistic Programming" and "Provocative Therapy according to Farralley".
"BERATER/ THERAPEUTEN/ HEILER/ COACHS SPINNEN"
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If "They're not all ticking right anyway" means that it's pretty daring to voluntarily face the challenge of negative concerns of third parties in addition to your own everyday problems, you will most likely be right. You could also make it easier for yourself. But maybe you manage it kindly to see this thought a little more gratefully and 1. to bring to mind that we sometimes use strange tactics so that it has a positive influence on your life, ie you benefit from it, or 2. we do too seem a little funny because individuality and personality were not known to you before, there are too many "copies" in this world and you are perhaps even among them?! Don't get me wrong, I know how you must feel. It was only through my own training, countless self-reflections and exercises that I was able to regain freedom and open individuality. So when you've reached that point, we'd love to talk about that statement again.
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"BERATER/ THERAPEUTEN/ HEILER/ COACHS SIND EINSCHÜCHTERND"
Du hast Recht.
Oftmals haben Unterstützer in dem Genre eine einschüchternde Erscheinung.
Ich müsste auch Lügen, wenn wir keine "Vorteile" hätten, da wir uns schließlich intensiv mit den Themen Rund um unsere Menschlichkeit auseinandersetzen.
Zudem haben wir ein enormes Pokerface.
Dennoch ist niemand allwissend, die Sparten sehr vielseitig und jeder Unterstützer auch niemals perfekt!
Auch wir Unterstützer trainieren stetig daran, unseren Glückstank voll zu halten und haben Reminder an alte Zeiten.
Solltest du privat auf einen Unterstützer treffen, sei dir gewiss, dass er sich freut einfach mal nur eine spaßige Zeit zu verbringen ohne zu analysieren #innereparty
Bei der Arbeit an deinem Anliegen kannst du dir das Wissen nur zum Vorteil machen.
Nutze jede Unterstützung als Möglichkeit zur Beschleunigung und habe keine Angst, dich zu öffnen.
Jeder Unterstützer unterliegt der Schweigepflicht.
Hier sind deine Anliegen sicher und werden respektvoll behandelt.