"A personal development organization with almost 300,000 'obvious' visitors on media platforms, while therapy is still shamefully covered up, eventually rejected by patients, or has already become a part of life."

​

I've had the privilege of getting to know a lot of people with different characters and life stories.

​

Unfortunately, among the inspiring stories and successes were also strong atrocities and unbelievably heavy blows of fate.

 

Some people who were slightly to very seriously "ill" according to the ICD-10 classification made statements that therapy was no longer of any use to them, that they had to wait far too long again or that "one diagnosis stamp" only followed the next(on which, however, also often seems to rest well). Some were already so severely impaired in perception and feeling or had already suffered consequential damage because they could not tolerate the intake of changing and ever-increasing psychotropic drugs or had "delayed" "diseases" so to speak.

​

Personality development or not, these are completely different house numbersme.

​

At some point my barrel was full and I was completely overwhelmed. I was incredibly ashamed of my own well-being, my own coherence and drive, my immense happiness and the luxury I was allowed to live.

​

I couldn't understand the problems in apparently still very deadlocked psychological systems, the constant ignorance or sadness of the relatives, this superficial way of thinking in society and that I just felt like I couldn't do anything effective!

"Between thankless health and hopeless illness, shall we raise our children happy and strong?!"

I rolled my thoughts up and down.

​

On my "dog and child-free weekend" I was once again getting a taste of the big city air when I was asked in a conversation why I wasn't studying psychology directly.

That's when the scales fell from my eyes - yes, a little small-town idiot who has been working for more than 10 years and is rooted in Mumlife, then needed a suitable impulse for some things.

​

But now I personally already had a tight everyday life(role colleague, role friend, role mom, role dog owner, "me with my needs")and therefore had to think very carefully:

 

"Budget for learning, time available in everyday life, personal strengths, energy reserves in the evening, Responsibility as a mother and future area of application.

A bachelor's degree in psychology and a master's degree to get directly involved in research and development? Or maybe just get active therapeutically.. Maybe the naturopath in psychotherapy?"

​

No no no.

All of this would now only result in major losses for me and my team and would be a generally unsuitable step for mebeen a vision.

​

"If I learn the basics of psychology professionally and support people part-time, to deal with some mental illnesses directlypreventivecounteract?!

If mankind would finally get rid of the illusion that they had already learned "everything from their parents" or "their sheltered way of life". If they could reconnect, broaden their horizons and train on themselves and their teams in good time? When everyone enjoys the "here and now" again. If, in the best case, all these topics, including dealing with finances and the media, are finally taught in schools at some point."

​

But people like me don't believe in waiting for better times.

So I set a new focus and started.

In addition, I resolved to expand my knowledge steadily and in any related branch, further and further.

​

The following questions still concern me:

"how can iReally effectively implement in a "so noisy" and "overstimulated" world? What was it that drew me personally to this personality organization back then and what could have definitely made my own training path easier?

What might assist those people whom oftentimes have the abilityfailed to connect?"

​

It's the irritation and uncomfortable truth of facts combined with tangible ways of life. Courageous speakers were able to motivate me to continue with their performances. Through your private story, I was able to connect with you.

​

"Mira, you are precocious, have experienced so much and always struggled through it. You

you are a role model and incredibly engaging. Would you like to speak publicly?"

​

I? My parents weren't even allowed to go to school plays, because public presence was always incredibly uncomfortable for me! Even social media challenges could not convince me.

In addition, the work of "the viewers" is just beginning back in their everyday life and that is precisely where role models are asked for questions and supporters are needed! I know what I'm talking about.

So what if I learned an all-round carefree portfolio of "advice", "relaxation", "coaching" and additionally inspired with a "mentor role"?!"

​

Perfect.

So the little loner sat down again and built up the training.

​

Dear reader, change processes should really not be underestimated.

It therefore stands to reason that most people simply give up after a whileor even into a low

fall because no suitable contact person is available.

So see a claim as acceleration and

work relief.

​

I firmly believe that

Personality development and preventive work the circle of

illnesscan be disrupted in the long term.

​

The world has changed and humanity with it.

And yes, counselors/therapists/coaches, better still need to be hand in

Working hand, with the generation processes grow with and

be more open if they want to provide long-term support.

 

So that we dare to make changes and everyone

different places, contribute something good.

 

And if you "just" accept this new consciousness

and reflect, that's already a start.

 

I thank you.